tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6069708576566877277.post2907838246309101259..comments2023-03-21T08:04:28.367-07:00Comments on 007inYeshiva: What on earth happened to me???? Where I was for the past 2.5 years007inYeshivahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07248953145416920655noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6069708576566877277.post-42915007250489024472018-01-14T01:29:26.781-08:002018-01-14T01:29:26.781-08:00Same boat as you. Married to a frum, but Liberal, ...Same boat as you. Married to a frum, but Liberal, girl I love. Wondering for how long I'll be able to keep it up... Yavoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01583055822802638985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6069708576566877277.post-52451489656612725402015-05-18T23:10:33.844-07:002015-05-18T23:10:33.844-07:00You may want to see a Therapist. And if children a...You may want to see a Therapist. And if children are born then what ? Are you willing to let them be brainwashed at Yeshiva and the financial costs are high both for Yeshiva and Orthodox lifestyle. ? Let alone your own stress that may build. One option is to slowly and indirectly broach the subject and get your wife to think critically think about Orthodoxy. Maybe she will come to believe as you. If that is not an option you may have to make accommodation - Marriage is a give and take. Good Luck Alter Cocker Jewish Atheisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07263517660985042288noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6069708576566877277.post-92052522915643990142015-04-22T18:48:54.520-07:002015-04-22T18:48:54.520-07:00Yeah I didn't really know if there was anythin...Yeah I didn't really know if there was anything else to do. Now I feel like I would only be hurting people by "coming out" and that why should I hurt my wife and family just so I can be happier? It's not like I'm walking around depressed or anything... I feel like it would be such a selfish thing to do.007inYeshivahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07248953145416920655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6069708576566877277.post-92112459850988858742015-04-22T14:00:06.259-07:002015-04-22T14:00:06.259-07:00I was in the same boat as you--was 007 in yeshiva,...I was in the same boat as you--was 007 in yeshiva, went to college, dated a MO girl and became more at ease with religious stuff. But I couldn't take the plunge to marry her in part because I feared exactly what happened to you would happen to me--losing interest in doing things I don't believe in.<br /><br />However, I don't see alternative to what you did. I don't know how I could marry someone with no sh'aychus to OJ, I feel like in all likelihood I'm eventually going to have to take the same path you took and just live with it. You're not alone!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6069708576566877277.post-77736161378628356482015-04-22T07:26:40.507-07:002015-04-22T07:26:40.507-07:00mazel tov, but dumb move
ksilmazel tov, but dumb move<br /><br />ksilAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com